The memorial for Joel O'Brien on Oct. 17th went great.
… There was a King Bees reunion at the memorial!! (only Kootch and
Dickie Frank left alive unfortunately). Rob Dupree brought a 5 page fax
of the Joel O'Brien tribute written by Ralph Shuckett to the memorial
on Sunday and I made a few copies (there was a copy machine in an office)
for Rob to give to close friends. When I got home I read the letter and
was quite amazed by Ralph's writing. He really nailed it. He captured Joel
like he really was and everything about him in that letter rang true.
Kootch even mentioned it in his speech at the memorial. He said how
Ralph hadn't seen Joel in 20 years, but his effect he had on him was such
that Shuckett wrote this intense 5 page letter about him. He had that effect
on all of us. Joel was quite a guy. Many people loved that man. I have
included the letter below (with Ralph's permission) - a great piece of
writing and for a while I'll be re-reading it often.
And to those who weren't there the memorial itself
was a big success. The place was packed. It was a school auditorium in
the village. Joel's father, two brothers and widow were all there. My old
band "The Glitterhouse" in which Bishop played drums, had a reunion. First
one in 30 years (Mike Gayle, Hank Aberle, Al Lax and me). The remaining
King Bees did "Lost in a Shuffle" - Kootch and Dickie Frank with
Richard Corey doing lead vocals (John John's part). John John McDuffy is
rumored to have died ten years ago from a drug OD on the lower east side.
I performed a song I wrote with the Bish - "Take
a G note off the fat man" and my hit "You gotta have friends". Kootch backed
up Rob Dupree and Richard Corey and me. Joe Berger also played with me
and had Bishop's old ten piece big band play and a jazz quartet with
Joey performed that also used to work with Bish.
Bishop's family made speeches and Kootch and
I also made speeches, as did Professor Irwin Corey (he's 90!) and in great
shape. There must have been at least three hundred people there. Refreshments
were served and many old friends from Great Neck were there.
Joel's collages (he became a respected
artist in the last years of his life) were on the wall as were pix of him
from all phases of his life. Richard Corey showed a 15 minute bio of Joel's
life - lots of amazing stuff in that video. Joel's legend was extremely
large and his friends, family and fans came out in force to remember this
absolutely unique guy
So below is Ralph's remembrance - check it out.
Moogy
And many thanks to Ralph Shuckett who gave me his kind permission
to publish his remembrance.
| Subject: Thinking of Joel
Dear Harriet and Friends, I hope you are coping with Joel's absence, and that it's in some way bearable. How fragile and short life is! How easy it is to forget our friends and colleagues amidst the hurry-scurry huff 'n' puff drama that everyday life has become. Today, work and family commitments revented me from joining you, but I wanted to share some thoughts about Joel and what he means to me. Please forgive the digressions. I tend towards self indulgence with word processors. Bishop and I roomed together on several tours of the US and England. We were drinking buddies, and we talked endlessly, but Joel rarely talked about himself. As I think about it, I knew very little about him-- his childhood, family or his feelings. It wasn't his style to reveal his inner life. Joel was an ageless, world-wise hipster. I, at the time a fledgling
bohemian, couldn't connect him with my mundane image of family life, just
as I couldn't imagine Miles having parents, or Jimi Hendrix, or Frank Zappa.
Cool people didn't have parents. They weren't cursed with the ill-fated,
inescapable irritant, that I viewed parents to be. No, Joel O'Brien had
skipped childbirth and childhood. He had simply materialized one night
in The Blue Note, humbly and surreptitiously, in some weird cosmic Immaculate
Conception.
When I heard he was ill, I phoned Bishop. After our twenty year estrangement
I was nervous and self-conscious. I felt compelled to be cheerful, positive,
and supportive-- to say the right thing. His voice, with just the first
two words-- "Hey, Cuz," had such great warmth and affection, with
no judgement and no need, that I, by comparison, felt uptight, banal and
disconnected. I realized, that I, at times, had judged, even
dissed him, and had never acknowledged his warmth, affection and acceptance.
In my self-involved, drugged out youth I'd been pretty much oblivious to
that kind of thing. The last time I'd seen him was on 6th Aveand 12th Streetin
front of Ray's Pizza. I was in a big hurry, late for I forget what, and
we hadn't really connected. So now, we made a date for my visit, but he
said, almost sheepishly, that there was one problem he was concerned about.
Then he said, "We have cats and I know you're allergic, so you should
take a pill before you come." The fact that Joel, suffering with the pain
of a terrible illness, with little time left, with the events and
regrets, the memories and attachments, the people he'd loved and married,
the stuff he never got to do, the stuff he shouldn't have done-- all this
all up in his face-- How did he remember such an insignificant detail about
me, whom he hadn't seen or heard a peep from in twenty years? I think that
in one short phone
It's not the fact that he was dying. Being in my line of work (or maybe it's my choice of friends, or just our times) a lot of my people have died. Some from fate. Some from old age. Some by their own hand. Some were killed by the life they lived, or "chose", if you look at it from today's popular psycho-spiritual-metaphysical-12 Step-Oprah- Dr Phil viewpoint. At times I've been asked or attempted to eulogize these departed, but could never find any words, really. I'd tearfully mutter "I love you" or "I miss you", but I couldn't summon, much less convey, my deep feelings for the person. This is the first time, ever, that, not only do the words come easily, but I can't stop talking! Joel O'Brien wasn't just a great musician, an amazing talent, or an artist, although he was all those things. He was more than just a musical mentor, an astute social critic, or a snappy dresser. Though he was all those things. More than just a junkie. Although sometimes he was a junkie. Joel O'Brien was an institution. A way of life. A point of view. A piece of history. An era. A connection with a world that no longer exists. I never thought of him as "old school", but by today's standards of hipness, I guess he was. Because he wasn't trendy. He didn't adhere to anyone else's standards. And he didn't change his mind every few weeks about what was and wasn't cool. I mean how many beboppers do you know with reverence and respect for Appalachian hillbilly music? How many hillbillies listen to Thelonious Monk? At the time Joel and I became friends, I had a narrow, skewed standard
of what I thought "good music" was, though I didn't know it. Basically,
it went like this: There is no good white music, unless it's eastern European
classical music, and that doesn't swing, and is for old people, anyway.
(I couldn't reconcile that with the fact that most of my band-mates had
been white, but I was in denial about that). All Blues, Bebop and Hard
Bop were automatically great, even uninspired cookie cutter "commercial"
jazz, if performed by black people, especially all the Hammond Organ trios
recorded in Trenton, New jerseyghetto clubs. The exceptions were Ramsey
Lewis, who was just too damn popular, and Ahmad Jamal, who, too me, just
didn't swing, and didn't deserve all those albums and airplay, even if
he did have a cool name. "West Coast" jazz was permissible, even played
by whites, but not if they were successful studio musicians. Only Art Pepper
and Gerry Mulligan made that cut, the former because he was in prison,
the latter because he was just so undeniably cool. Dave Brubeck was Satan
incarnate, the personification of evil. His only rivals for that throne
were the Grateful Dead, whom I actually kinda like now, because they're
so white, and so lousy, that they really do have a unique sound. Any music
that becomes popular, even if it's black music, immediately decreases in
value. Top forty music from any race has no value unless it's super-funky
(which to me at that time meant "with a busy broken up beat, ie James Brown's
"Cold Sweat" or
So, as my unwitting mentor, Bishop had his work cut out for him.
It didn't take him long to shatter all my preconceptions. In no time, he
hipped me to as diverse an array of music makers as you'll ever find anywhere.
From Eddie Palmieri to The Carter Family. From Noel Coward to Buell Kazee.
From Mickey Katz to Fela Ransom Kuti. All along he seasoned the mix joyfully
with anecdotes, footnotes and cross references. Pointing out phrases, reciting
lyrics, explaining origins and traditions, and immigration patterns. He
unearthed
I'm not even going to get into "Bishop on the Cinema", because that
would fill several volumes. Suffice it to say that, post-Bishop, when watching
a film or TV show, if I like it, you can be sure I know why I like it,
and if I don't, I can probably give you an example of an earlier film that
told the same story in a better way. At Hollywoodparties (if there still
is such a thing) I can reel off references to Fritz Lang, Eric Von Stroheim,
Albert Zugsmith, et al. It used to be that I could name practically every
mug, every cowpoke, every tipsy society matron, vagabond, crony, henchman,
fallguy, con artist, sidekick, corpulent corrupt politician, pompous, prune-faced
demagogue, European professor, nerd, geek, judge, jurist, storekeeper,
cab driver, insane asylum nurse, or cranky old New Englander ever to grace
the American screen. My memory's not so great these days, so I
And Joel could be so funny, with an ironic, understated, wacky take
on things, and an easy, infectious laugh. And a puck-ish penchant for mischief.
He loved playing pranks. That's one of the things that distinguished him
from most people I knew-- Bishop never took himself too seriously. God
knows the rest of us did. On the road, like most
Today, with 20-20 hindsight, I know that in many ways he was right.
Nowadays, I even tell my kids that a lot. Get on with it. Teenagers' own
personal pain is so goddam precious. Sometimes, no matter how bad it is
(and my kids don't know from bad) you just gotta get on with it. Some of
us have spent fortunes on therapy, but are we really, after it
Some might say that he was your typical New Yorkleft wing bohemian
intellectual beatnik musician, but they'd be lying. I new lots of those,
and Joel wasn't one of them. When my parents met Joel, they said he was
a "character". He was, but shit, so were they. My whole family was full
of characters. But none was a true original, like Bishop. You don't see
too many originals these days. Not in the music world, anyway. Nowadays
it's hard to be original! We all watch TV. We're exposed to everything
all the time. Most people dance to someone else's tune, and we don't even
know we're doing it. Sometimes we can't even hear a tune anymore, but we
be dancin', just the same! Cuz we see everybody else around us dancin'.
Maybe we just need to dance. Sometimes it seems like with all our evolution
and "higher consciousness", and all the changes the beatniks and hippies
brought
I re-connected with Joel, and saw him, weak, in pain, and pretty much resigned to his fate. I listened to his CD's, playing piano and singing, and perused walls of his artwork, and I was, both thrilled and saddened. He'd cultivated and made public creative parts of himself I'd never seen. His work blew me away. Made me laugh out loud. I heard him singing in my car and I started to shout, Yeah, Joel! Alright! You're doin it! Bravo! That was the thrilling part. The sad part is not that I never got to tell how much I loved him, which is true, but that's a given at memorials. I don't feel guilty and he and I have no unfinished business. The sadness is really just me being, in a way, selfish. It comes from realizing how much I've missed, all these years we haven't kept in touch, and how much more we could have shared, as we both grew older and, hopefully up. I think of watching the Bush-Kerry debates with Bishop. Or ragging on a reality show. Or him meeting my kids. Who knows, maybe I could have even taught him something, for a change. Now before I go any further, you have to imagine what I'm about to say, being spoken by James Stewart or Henry Fonda. I'm not trying to be funny, and every word of it comes painfully, from my deepest places. But I also don't want to wallow in sentimentality and embarrass Joel. So if one of those guys says it, we can, if we choose to, maintain an ironic distance, and no one will be embarrassed or bummed out. Or, if we choose to buy into it, we can be as bloody sentimental as we want to be, cry in our beer, and Joel will just have to bare it. Considering what he bore in the last weeks of his life, it'll be cake. Do we understand each other? Good. Joel has been looming large in my thoughts and in my heart for the
last few weeks. And today, though I'm looking through this veil of tears,
I see very clearly how Joel has left his mark on this world. How he's made
a difference. What part of him will never go away. Each of us possesses
a piece of his legacy. I write music for a living-- all kinds. Lots of
it is on TV. Every note of music that I write, or play contains a piece
of Joel's legacy. You can hear his legacy in Danny Kortchmar's music, and
because of that, in some of Don Henley's music. People every day, all over
the world, hear it in Carole King's music, in James Taylor's. In Robbie
DuPree's. You'll hear it in the music their children make, if they do.
Anyone who's ever worked with any of these people I mention, has inherited
some of it. People who never heard of, never met, couldn't give a shit
about Joel O'Brien, or
Now that Jimmy or Henry has finished speaking, and I'm thinking of
all that's been lost, and all that's been gained, I find myself both laughing
and crying at the same time. It's not easy, and it hurts. But it also feels
really good. And that, I guess, is the point.
Ralph Shuckett |
“Joel bishop O'Brien, the drummer in my first 3 bands, died in early
Sept. He was a huge influence on me and many others during his life, and
will be sorely missed by the many people that loved him.
Although Joel played drums in our bands, he was a wonderful piano
player and interpreter of jazz standards, but that only scratches the surface
of what he was about.
Joel had a vast knowledge of early American music as well as jazz,
r &b, blues and rock &roll. He also was stunningly articulate and
provided me (and many other of his friends) with an education about Italian
cinema, American movies and literature. Hanging out with Joel was my college.
The stuff I learned from him has informed my music and my life since.
Joel was also a wonderful artist, who used collage and graphics
to create art that was instantly recognizable as his. He had a unique style
in everything he did, the way he dressed, his hipster lingo. He probably
influenced everyone he ever had a conversation with.
I hope people will get to hear his later music, when he finally
came into his own as a jazz pianist and vocalist. His music is what he
was: sly, witty soulful, cool, smart, funky,.........hip.
I'll miss him for the rest of my life.”
| An obituary from the New York Times, Sept.
16th, 2004 written by Joel's brother, Jeffrey O'Brien.
O'Brien, Joel - 61, in Los Angelos on Sept. 9th. Beloved musician
and artist. He was an impeccable rock drummer who recorded with James Taylor,
Carol King and many others; a visual artist of fertile and whimsical imagination;
a jazz instrumentalist, vocalist and composer steeped in the tradition
that he loved passionately. He was a conserver of lost treasures and an
inventor of new combinations.
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This is cut from Robbie Dupree's website. Robbie had two top ten hits in the early 80's, "Steal Away" and "Hot Rod Hearts". I regret to announce the passing of my dear friend Joel "Bishop"
O'Brien. He died at home in Mar Vista California on September 9th after
a battle with Cancer. Joel was a brilliant musician. A true original. He
was a member of The Flying Machine with James Taylor, as well as many other
great groups like Jo Mama and The King Bees. He made his mark as a drummer
by performing on classic albums like Carole King's "Tapestry" and James
Taylor's "Sweet Baby James". In the years 73' to 78' Joel moved to Woodstock.
Together we formed many bands - The Striders, Small Fortune, Breaker 1-9
and The Skye band were the best known. Joel last performed with me on my
Smoke and Mirrors cd. He will be missed by all who were touched by his
friendship and his music.
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Robbie Dupree with Joel and the Stryders
The Stryder's - sometime in the 1970's
L to R: unknown, Joel O'Brien, Eric Hanningsberg,
Gail Boggs, Josh Sneider, Dave Shwartz, Robbie Dupree
The Kingbees 1966 |
"Memories of Joel" by Moogy Klingman
Joel was drummer to both James Taylor and Carole
King. Playing in their band and on their records. He was the drummer on
Carole King's hit singles, "It's Too Late" and "Sweet Season". He
also drummed and recorded for my band the Glitterhouse, Robbie Dupree's
band, the Stryders and Daniel Kotchmar bands like Jo Mama with Ralph Schuckett,
the King Bees with John John McDuffy, and the Flying Machine with James
Taylor
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The Glitterhouse 1968, L to R: Moogy, Mike, Joel, Al and Hank w/ Bob Crewe behind the glass |
L to R: Joel O'Brien, Moogy Klingman, Mike Gayle, Al Lax and Hank Aberle |
The Kingbees 1966 L to R: Dickie, Danny, Joel and John John |
Joel was like a father, brother and teacher/mentor
to me, all at once. And he was a humble human being, who held ill will
toward no one. In a sleazy, ego driven business like the music business,
Joel was without ego, and sleazed out on no one. He was a pure soul with
a good heart.
Though I haven't been close to Joel for many years (though I always tried to stay in touch), in my ealy years, ages 16 to 22 or 23....... Joel and I were very close. And he always taught me much about music and life in his role as life's teacher. I was lucky to get him to join the Glitterhouse (my band) after the Flying Machine broke up. And I was extremely lucky that I got to meet so many amazing musicians because he introduced me to them. Folks like Danny Kooch, James Taylor, Ralph Shuckett, Carole King, John John McDuffy, Richard and Professor Irwin Corey..... and his woodstock gang of musicians including Robbie Dupree and Josh Sneider. Richard told his father Irwin (who's 90) about Joel's death and he was upset. |
Joel "Bishop"
O'Brien was one of the more amazing musicians I've worked with and been
friends with. He's from my home town, Great Neck, but many years older
than me, I only met Joel after we'd both moved to NYC from Long Island.
He was with NYC's hottest band at the time, "The King Bees". Joel became
a friend, musical mentor and teacher.
After that day, I spent as much time as I could hanging out and listening
to the Flying Machine. I'd go listen to them play til midnite at the Nite
Owl and then walk with Joel and James back to Joel's 6th floor walk-up
apartment on Charles street.
Joel had an endless supply of records new
and old, and would play them for Jame and me until dawn. He'd explain each
part and how the musicians decided to play what they played. Joel was an
expert on all styles of music. From Jazz to Bluegrass to Blues to Rock
and R & B Joel knew and could play it all.
And Bish kept me under his
wing like student/son/sidekick. I was always welcome to hang with the Bish.
And the Bishop always had my complete respect. I'll miss him badly.
Moogy Klingman - 9/12/04
Collages by Joel O'Brien
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Paintings of Joel O'Brien by Joel's
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artist friend, Richard Corey in the late 60's
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James Taylor, Carol King, Jo Mama Tour 1971 & James Taylor, bottom row: Carol King and Lee Sklar |
Joel with his first wife Connie, with James Taylor at Richard Corey's wedding, 1970 |
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Excerpt from Geoffrey O'Brien's "Sonata for Jukebox"
(Cue: The Kingbees, "Four in the Morning", unreleased demo, 1965)
It's summer.
Another year passed while they (the Kingbees) were listening to records.
The younger kids-high school's over with by now, though autumn still seems
far off- will gather around the musicians to study their moves and provide
an audience. Joel manages a constant play of metamorphoses-starting
with name: he is now Bishop, because somebody thought a cloak he wore once
made him look like a bishop-and his role changes hang on the adjustment
of an ascot or medallion, an unexpected guava-colored splash, a modulation
of accent or facial hair that changes a Prussian officer into a Dodge City
gambler. The effects are completed as often as not with wardrobe salvaged
from the back of the closet, the castoff's of four decades, the Shriner's
tie, the golf hat with the scarlet tassel, the leather driving gloves.
The characters he mimes-not so much impersonated as freshly invented-reel
in and out of existence so fast it would seem rehearsed except for that
air of rough exuberance that proves it's all improvised.
Somewhere nearby where he can reach it is
a cascading pile of 45's, scooped up from among a dozen such piles: René
Hernandez, the Manhattans, Gene Ammons, Albert Collins, Lord Invader, Eddie
Jefferson, Buck Owens, Sugar Pie De Santo, chosen almost randomly from
hundreds of instances. He's just remembered the name of an accordion player
who died in Missouri last month with all his recordings out of print. This
morning, while seeming to watch a Jungle Jim rerun,
while doing the things that musicians do (wait around until three,
listen to the tapes, wait for Mike to call, remember to pick up some soda
on the way out), he was thinking about how chord changes affect the space
in a room. Now, in the guise of a melodica version of "Ruby My Dear, "
he is sketching a tonal portrait of our grandmother's childhood in Hungary.
These improvisations mingle with pieces of
his life in these last few complicated years that seem to have moved too
fast to track: the time he played drums behind the Cadillacs (of "Speedo"
fame) at a high school but ended up in Los Angeles listening to Teddy Edwards
and Billy Higgins at the Venice West, or catching Dexter Gordon in the
West Coast production of The Connection, and then back home where he played
a gig doubling on drums and vibes on a floating bar while attending summer
school by day. Sitting up listening to Alan Freed and Jocko: hanging out
at Indian Joe's record store in the West 40's: an old Communist; learning
about African jazz from Hugh Masekela and Cuban jazz from Eddie Palmieri,
not through formal study but just by hanging out; managing a movie theater
on Avenue C and getting badly beaten by some locals who didn't like the
company he was keeping; in the hospital and then on an island off the Baja
coast, getting crazy; getting high; shooting a pistol off in an empty house;
driving through Mississippi singing Hank Williams songs in road houses;
watching a movie in the snow at a drive-in in deep winter. The scenes come
out in a different order every time.
He demonstrates the total malleability of surfaces.
Disruption is life. His musical transformations are of the same order.
He segues from suggestions of Jack Teagarden to Uncle Dave Macon, from
tourist lounge calypso singer to a scatting vocal setting of Sonny Rollin's
solo on "Strode Rode" to a fragment of an Alban Berg-like wail of atonal
Central European anguish in mock German, with spoken interludes ranging
from punch-drunk prizefighter to George Sanders welcoming you to Saturday
night at Club Macumba. Everything truly alive is in some sense made up
on the spot, out of whatever happens to be around.
The band is rehearsing, making
themselves acceptable for the club audience, hoping to stimulate some airplay
for their second single, but that audience will never see the chaos that
gets edited out. This is perhaps the real artwork, but it dissolves in
air.
The last 10 years of Joel's life, he became a collage
artist. He has had many show where his work was sold. To view his
visual art may be viewed
at http://coolgrove.com
You can send condolences to Joel's widow, Harriet at CelloKatz@aol.com
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Hi Folks,
A celebration of the life of good friend and musician/artist Joel "Bishop" O'Brien will be held Sunday, Oct. 17th from 3 to 6 pm at the Village Community School Auditorium* at 272 w. 10th st between Greenwich st. and Washington St. in the far west village one block east of the Hudson River. It's free.
Joel, who died last month (1943 - 2004),
drummed in my old band the Glitterhouse and his credentials are extensive.
Playing on early records and in bands with both James Taylor and
Carole King, Joel is one of rock 'n roll's seminal drummers. I will
be performing "Friends" and hopefully another song or two. My old band
the Glitterhouse, will be staging it's first reunion in 30 years and will
also being doing a few songs.
Old friend Danny "Kooch" Kotchmar,
guitarist, songwriter-producer extrodinary will also sing a few songs,
(lead guitarist & songwriter for James Taylor, Carole King, Jackson
Brown and Don Henley, among others).
Also performing at the event will
be Rob Dupree (remember his hit's - "Steal Away" and "Hot Rod Hearts")
and musicians from many of Joel's former bands including the Joel's Kansas
City Big Band.
Joel's family will also be there
and his brother, respected author, Geoffrey O'Brien will be speaking.
Please come and celebrate the
life of this absolutely unique artist.
Moogy Klingman